* Sarcasm is a result of hidden anger; it is a type of striking out at the world for perceived injustices. Unforgiveness can and does have an impact.
* Unforgiveness creates a tie or cable between you and the other individual. With this link, the other person has the power to influence every aspect of your life. This influence is not always noticeable to you, but you have actually placed yourself in a position of vulnerability to the unforgiving person.
* We need to realize that with Jesus' death and resurrection, we are forgiven and loved. Whether we accept the forgiveness in love is up to us. God loves and forgives us no matter what. It's not what we do but what He did that determines the love and forgiveness. Yes, we can disappoint him and walk away from him, but he will never walk away from us. Peter saw and experienced a depth of forgiveness and love that I'm sure was difficult for him to comprehend. He denied Jesus, yet Jesus enfolded him.
* Rejection is one of the most difficult feelings to overcome. Hatred and love are black or white. Rejection is a pushing away by one party, with the other party unclear as to why or what they have done to warrant snobbery. Rejection is cruel and most often is selfish. It presupposes that another does not quite attain the standard we have established, and the resulting failure to measure up results in ostracism
. To know that one is hated or loved sets firm foundations; rejection has movable boundaries. There is no definite rationale given. A person who has experienced rejection more than once in varying intensities fears it and strives to protect themselves from it. Unfortunately, the protective walls serve to keep others at a distance, exacerbating the feelings of rejection. One can choose to build walls or not accept rejection, for rejection must be claimed as one's own before it can affect one's life. Some of us claim rejection when, in actuality, there is none, but because of our perceptions, it becomes, in fact, to us reality. The best way to handle rejection and other hurts we may have is to set the wheels of forgiveness in motion, not to let the other person off the hook, per se, but let ourselves off the hook. Get on with life. There will be other things to counter, and to better handle them, we need to be unencumbered. Backpacking gets hard enough without adding stones to the pack.
* Thought for the day: I refuse to allow you to tell me how to feel, because you are having a bad day. It is my responsibility to become the sunshine through your dark and cloudy sky.